Friday, 25 August 2017


When was the last time you were happy because of "you"?
When was the last time you were happy because you were able to put a smile on the face of someone else?

When was the last time you were truly happy because of the future you see?
Many, tend to attach happiness to only when things are bright, when their partner treats them well, when they won a lottery/contract, when they get that bank alert.

Well, these are all goodnews and very good reasons to be happy but permit me to state that until you are happy for "you" these happiness can only be temporary i.e it dies as soon as things return back to normal.

Until you learn to make happiness a lifestyle, you may just be living based on people/material dictatorship.
Personally, i make a conscious/delebrate effort to be happy. I surround myself with people who have less hate, i go to places where life is celebrated.

You know that saying that "life does not give you what you deserve, it gives you what you demand"? Yes it's true and it's applicable to your joy too. Demand your joy(happiness) and make a deliberate effort to obtain it.

Here are some tips that can help you to stay happy despite your challenge:

Be mindful of the fact that you are not here (earth) by mistake 

Acknowledge and take stock of every good thing that has happened to you in the past. 

Look around you, you will see a thousand and one person you are better than. 

Acknowledge the fact that God kept you for a reason 

Known that a living dog is better than a dead lion. Be thankful for LIFE. 

Stop allowing people dictate your happiness instead, learn to take full control of your life. Be deliberate about your mood because you are the CEO of YOU.
As you step into the weekend, be happy and put a smile on someone's face.

A merry heart doeth good like a medicine: but a broken spirit drieth the bones.

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