Tuesday, 9 May 2017


It's no longer news that Adesua Etomi is going to be the future Mrs W soon. Rather what i consider fascinating, is how happy Nigerians seems to be for these two. I have never seen a couple who enjoyed this level of love and acceptance like these two. Their story have become one of my favorite love stories in recent times.
In case you are wondering how and why, just refamiliarized yourself with the words from Banky below 👇👇👇👇

Dear Susu (part II) 
In that time, I got engaged to you in my "made for you" music video... and by pure coincidence, we both got cast to get married in the wedding party movie.. but all the while we were the very best of friends. I guess, in our case, real life will now imitate art.

I'm not sure what the future will bring, but I'm completely sure that I am ready to face it with you by my side. I pray that God continues to build me into the kind of man that you deserve. I love you Susu.. I feel safe and at peace with you. You mean the world to me. Thank you for agreeing to be my lover and best friend. Thank you for agreeing to be my wife. 
PS: The timing of this may make some people think this is promo for another video, or a movie. It isn't. 
Ironically, everyone who has seen us together in art, or in life, always insists that we have amazing chemistry. I guess you can say we have been hiding in plain sight. I fell in love with an Actress. Now my life is a movie.

In February of 2017, I asked Adesua Tolulope Oluwaseun Etomi to be my wife. She said Yes.

Guys, this is where i picked the following point that would guide you in chasing the girl of your dreams.

Be patience
These days even some guys are the ones in haste.  The moment a girl tell them please give me sometime to think about your proposal, they give up and moved over to her friend, neighbor or colleague as the case maybe.
You need to know that every good thing takes time. If she says she needs time, please give her time. If she says you should be just friends please be her friend and stop threatening her by flirting with other girls right under her nose.

Have a sense of humor
This isn't a virtue many have, but i tell you it sure help in spicing up relationships. Please don't be all dry, sad and introverted. Losen up abit Bro nobody died 😁.  Crack a joke if you need to, laugh when necessary and drop this archaic mindset that you will lose her respect if you are too playful with her. Make your woman comfortable being around you. Is that too much to ask?

Know how to pray and fast.
Your religion not withstanding, know how to pray. Women needs a guys who can go all the way for them. Do not abandon her when she needs your support spiritually, do not switch off your line if she insist that you should do midnight prayers with her. Support and encourage her. Not romantic talk all the time. Sometimes it should be bible study.

Be consistent
Some guys easily give up on love. Some are not even sure of what they want. Guys, if you have identified what you want, please pursue it. Especially when the girl just came out from an unpleasant relationship, don't think she would easily say yes to you. Still call her and chat her up when necessary. Trust me women like guys who don't easily give up

You can read the part 1 of this story here


  1. Banky is a lucky man and i hear he is decent too.

  2. is always suggested that you note down the good and bad things about the actors that you have called for screen series


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