Friday, 5 May 2017


So the greatest love story so far in 2017 happened on wednesday 3rd May. I was in a friend's house when i first saw the story on instagram and you need to see the way i screemed YES I SAID IT.
Even though my friend and those around concluded it was a movie, i had this deep conviction that this is real because of a truth i had attended their wedding in my mind a long time ago 😂.  Can i confessed that i had also created their hashtag already? Yes that's how sure i was that they were going to become man and wife in reality.

In this write up, like i always do, i would point out some vital lessons some of my sisters should emulate judging from Adesua's summarized story.

"I went to an event in 2015 and I suppose that was the beginning of something amazing  because once  banky saw me, he decided that he was going to be my biggest fan. 
He slid into my DM and sent the funniest message and that was how we became friends. At the time, I wasn’t interested in anything but a friendship and he was very respectful of that and so we stayed just friends for about a year and a half. 
Our friendship opened my eyes to a lot of things. Opened my eyes to the type of man Olubankole is and WHAT A MAN. WHAT A MIGHTY GOOD MAN. 
Olubankole, Your Heart is pure and good, to the very core. You are proof that God is real, you are proof that what’s on the inside is greater and so much more powerful than what we see on the outside and you are the evidence of what I hoped for. I bless God for entrusting my heart in your hands because I know it’s safe. You are everything i prayed for and so much more. 
Thank you for praying with me, fasting with me, always making time for me, laughing with me,  and caring more about me than yourself. Thank you for being kind, loving and full of Integrity.
And i’d like to say one more thing. I’m SO SORRY that it took me sooo long to realise that it was you. It has always been you. It couldn’t have been anyone else. 
In February 2017, you said you couldn’t be without me and asked me to be your wife and I said YES cause I can’t be without you. 
It will be an absolute pleasure and one of the greatest blessings of my life to walk the path of life with you. 
Thank you for being who you are.
My goodluck charm, my King, my lover, my bestfriend.
I love you till eternity and beyond.
No, This Is not a movie.
Future Mrs W."

Don't always turn down event invitations
I personally know a single sister that never attends event and her excuse is she is busy. Now, not that everyone who attends event get hooked but there's a greater chance that you meet people when you go to the right events especially when you are single and searching.

Always check your DMs 
Though i am taken, but contract and business might just be wasting in that DM. Ladies please don't always ignore DMs sometimes a Mr Right just slided in. Most ladies are guilty of this because of the large number of trolls on the Internet these days.
For those that put heavy padlock on their pages, i hope you learn a lesson or two from Susu?

Develop friendship first 
Okay alot of ladies fail to see this as very important in a relationship. The fact is that you cannot have a smooth relationship with someone who isn't first your friend.  Do not be too in a haste to jump into a love affair with a total stranger. Please take time to know him without emotional attachment only then would your judgment be unbiased. A time of friendship is a time of discovery. Discover yourselves first and be sure that you are cool with his kind of person before agreeing to commit to him. Some girls will even confront the guy and said we have been friends for sometime now i want to know where this is heading.

Like seriously? It's a no no approach trust me.

There is no perfect man
Sistersthere's is no man that is perfect. The earlier you realized this the better. This picture says it all 👇👇

Love him 
I have had issues with some ladies who claim they never loved their partners and when i probe further, they would reveal that because they have been friends for sometime with him, and everyone actually call them a couple, she couldn't turn down the request when he finally did proposed.
No one i know that married out of pity, that has a happy home. Please let there be some level of affection, love before you accept that proposal.
In other cases, the intending couple after being friends for sometime, discover they aren't compatible and it ends at the friendship level which is a better option for both parties.

Do you have other lessons to share with us, please feel free to slide in the comment section let's mingle and please do not forget to share this post using any of the social media buttons below.  
Watch this space to see the points i picked from Banky's story.


  1. Preach on ma. Btw am your biggest fan right now. Haters don't come close.

  2. Those that have ears let them hear what gloriafinesblog is saying.

  3. i am happy for the two

  4. Ladies, these are vital lessons you should emulate from Adesua's love story


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