Tuesday, 25 April 2017


It is true churches preach and teach against premarital sex to a very clear set of people for a good number of reasons.
Every premarital sex message is and can only work for the children of God and not for everyone in the society. So, if you are preaching against premarital sex, you should be sure that if you are a child of God,  you are  part of the people the message is meant for (1 Corinthians  1:18).

For the preaching of the cross is to them that perish foolishness; but unto us which are saved it is the power of God.
Who are the children of God? A child of God is not a church goer, a title holder in the church, a worker in the church, someone who speaks in tongue, a gentle Christian who is not outspoken, a person who does not wear ear rings or trousers, but someone who has gracefully kept the words of God in his/her heart doing everything to make heaven.  
(1 Corinthians  15:19) If in this life only we have hope in Christ, we are of all men most miserable. Matthew  6:31

Therefore take no thought, saying, What shall we eat? or, What shall we drink? or, wherewithal shall we be clothed?  (6:32 for after all these things do the Gentiles seek:) for your heavenly Father knoweth that ye have need of all these things.  6:33 But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.

Children of God are advised to keep away from premarital sex, because;

(1)  is an act of fornication 1Cor. 7:2;

(2) To marry with their values

(3) two children of God who marry with their bodies intact for themselves will grow in the knowledge of sex together.
It is an established fact that a partner who has tasted sex with different people may find it difficult staying alone with one person in marriage and

(4) it punches spiritual life of a Christian and make such life useless and incapable of wearing the glory of God either on earth or in heaven (Romans 8:6 ).

For to be carnally minded is death; but to be spiritually minded is life and peace. 

Therefore, I don't know the usefulness of no sex before marriage principle for someone who lives anyhow lifestyle, someone who wears rag and someone who does not know about the kingdom of God, let alone preparing to get there.

Despite the fact that I don't say someone who is not a child of God is free to engage in it, yet i don't know which reason to give him/her not to. Because, while a child of God will never cry for loosing a guy who insists on premarital sex because of her stand against it, a non child of God will be ready to kill anybody who teaches her this principle if she looses her heartthrob because of the principle, most especially if the guy is rich and handsome.

A child of God has heaven as greatest priority, believes that his/her life is a project in the hands of God and with every assurance that every project in the hands of God can not fail and will be ready to loose everything just to remain on his/her way to the kingdom of God, but someone who does not know God who bases everything about his/her life on the present thing see loosing a rich guy for such as absurdity.

In conclusion, let every child be rest assure that whatsoever they loose to gain the kingdom of can not be counted as anything as compare to God's glory awaiting them, while I will implore any non born again Christian who is interested in the principle of "NO TO PREMARITAL SEX" to give their lives to Jesus and make the kingdom of God a priority to find it easy living with the principle. I know they have their reasons like to avoid unwanted pregnancy, STDs, to avoid being used by ritualist and to preserve their personal egos, yet by the time the urge and the temptation will come,  all these may fail, but the reason hinged on the kingdom of God can not. Thanks

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