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Tuesday, 31 January 2017

WHAT EVERY SINGLE SHOULD KNOW ABOUT SECRECY BEFORE SAYING "I DO"


If you are single and thinking of marriage, then please don't marry anyone who puts passwords or locks on their phone as a form of security to prevent you from accessing their conversations.

They can surely do this for other security measures, but you must not be the reason for this action.

I am very much aware that passwords or lock are for security purposes but one thing I don't approve of is when a spouse becomes the reason for that security measure.

There is nothing like secrecy or privacy in marriage, let no one deceive you there is, and let no one tell you he or she is doing that to save you from getting hurt. Marriage is a holy institution, there is nothing like hiding. Marriage is made for life and one of the very things that can destroy it is acts of hiding things.

The bible says in Genesis 2:25 (TLB) "Now although the man and his wife were both naked, neither of them was embarrassed or ashamed". What are you embarrassed or ashamed of your spouse seeing? If you can't be truthful, honest and transparent with them, then there is no need getting married to them. It doesn't matter how you feel about them.

Mark 10:8 (NLV) says “The two will become one. So they are no longer two, but one”. I therefore suggest to you, if he or she is hiding things from you, it simply means they don’t want to become one with you. Such a marriage won’t last.  Please share with your friends, someone out there needs this.

PS
This article was written by a Ghanaian marriage counselor named Adofoli.

8 comments:




  1. Hmmm . . . The last time I checked a boyfriend's phone, I saw things it would have been better not to know about.

    However,this article refers to privacy in marriage. So, I don't knoe whether I will be interested in checking hubby's phone. Till then . . . :D

    Heart Rays

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  2. Its true tho even to married couples

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  3. Lolz. Me that is a snooper. I will check jor. I don't have password on my phone why should he? Does he work for CIA?

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  4. I also don't support secrecy in marriage too.. Even in dating relationship..

    Glowyshoes's blog

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  5. If there's trust and real love between couples, i don't think there should be something to hide especially on phone..

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    1. I so agree with you Tunde. It's only when there's no trust in a relationship/marriage that the lovers involved start snooping around. But once there's trust, there's nothing to worry about.

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  6. wow! its a month since you posted

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