Wednesday, 4 May 2016

Hahaha i am a woman so what???

I get into an argument with a man. He slaps me. I feel the pain. Yet they tell me I provoked him.

I get into an argument with a man. I slap him. They tell me i have no respect.
Like I don't have a right to be angry........

So, my level of respect for people is judged by my degree of silence in the face of brutality.....Because I am a woman.So what?

I am not allowed to show anger. I must sit with my legs stretched out even if it hurts. I must not talk 'anyhow'. Because I am a woman.

My husband cheats on me, I am told to tolerate save my marriage because 'it is in their nature to cheat' I cheat....and I am sent packing with my obese tinker box
on my head and my little one still suckling my left nipple.
Three years later......little one is tagged a basted and the women will now tell my mother to take me for cleansing. Then, I will be flogged with a sorry excuse for a broom to get rid of the demon.

Because I am a woman. I am judged as a good girl if I know how to cook, clean and
do laundry for my man. And when I don't know how to, I am useless.
My character does not count.

Because I am a woman.
He is 28 and runs a company....."ahhh wonderful! Successful at a very young age".

I am 28 and I run a company " Hmmmm, she is not even married. My dear, marry as soon as possible o. You don dey old"
Because my life ends at forty

Because I am a woman.

I am not allowed to have wits or be a prodigy.......Because when I am financially buoyant....with out a rich dude beside me...then, I am a generous leg opener. Chai.

Because I am a woman.

I am raped. Then, it is my fault because the strap of my brain is pink. And if I am way younger, I will be flogged because I 'allowed' the 25year old broda next door to touch me. I am bleeding and sore....yet, they force me to admit I enjoyed it.

Because I am a woman.

My post will be considered controversial....

And everyone will try to correct me.

Because I am a woman

I am a woman

It does not make me less human......

As sent by a young Nigerian Lady.

Source: Facebook

Hahaha the annoyance isn't a small thing ooo. Biko young Nigerian lady take it easy things are changing now or aren't they? 
Please guys let's help a blog reader interpret this dream here

Do not miss "Dear Gloria" tomorrow..  


  1. women, strong being.May God continue to strenghten us

  2. No matter what I just know l am proud of my gender


  3. I love women. May God bless us

  4. I'm proud to be a woman

    It's been four weeks since I heard from Jeffrey, he doesn't pick my calls and when he replies my messages on WhatsApp it's like am chatting with a stranger. I noticed one thing about Jeffrey recently after posting new photos on Facebook he writes #stellawork, so does his whatsapp status read.I kept asking myself, who is Stella? Is she the one taking my place in my boo's life or is she........... continue....  

    miimi's diary  

  5. Before now society thinks because you are a woman you should take all the bullshit. Hell noooooooo.

  6. The world we live in today!!! Strength of a Woman though...


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