Friday, 8 April 2016

“Marriage Doesn’t Make You, You Make It” - OAP Freeze

Cool FM OAP, Freeze is adding his voice to the thousands of others speaking up against societal pressure on women to get married.

Below is what the media personality shared on his Instagram: “Does a good GOD want you in a bad marriage?? The answer is NO!

Ladies don’t rush into marriage because you are getting old, or because your parents want a grand child or because you feel that if you are not married after a certain age you are deemed a failure.

Marriage does not determine success, on the contrary, failure can be a result of a #BadMarriage. Always settle for long term happiness, even if it means short term discomfort.

If you can’t make yourself happy no one else can! Don’t be waiting for a man or woman to be your emotional or financial helper, instead look for someone that shares common goals, interests and perception with you and strive to achieve the goals together!

There is no greater pain than the anguish of a #BadMarriage don’t become the next victim!

Money doesn’t guarantee happiness in marriage. The recently trending case of a pretty mixed race actress has clearly shown this. The sadness of a bad marriage cannot be wiped away by ‘Gucci’ ‘Rolex’ or ‘Range Rover’ these things are nice but we don’t know how fickle and transient they are until you own them and your marital sorrow still persists.

It’s also harder to leave a rich man that a poor one! Lol!
Marriage doesn’t make you! You make it! So please start by choosing #MrRightinstead of #MrRightNow!”

There's a lesson of the week click here  to read..


  1. Yes oh marriage doesn't make you. You make it.
    Love his opinion. Thanks for visiting my blog.

  2. Good advice. Nailed it.
    Ladies, get in here.
    So you have a six months old daughter who is teething and the process was making her extremely cranky all day. Finally, heavens smiled on you and you were able to get her to sleep. You finally took a breather as you were overjoyed that she was finally asleep, if not blissfully. If only you knew.
    Continue here:

  3. so is he shading caroline Danjuma or the poor guys hustling.

    weel said,Freeze,only if ladies listen,there will be less divorce cases

  4. OK... All heard and we'll said Bros. God don't want anyone in a bad marriage.


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