Thursday, 17 December 2015

Dear Gloria Why do i always have bad luck?

My name use to be patience but i change it to Rose (not real name) because of the misfortune i always encounter.
I am hardworking and good looking yet nothing to write home about not even a relationship i can call stable.

Yes before you ask i am a christian (born again) and I am in my late 30s.
I am confused, frustrated and always tempted to end it all.
My life is messed up i don't even believe in miracles anymore.

My Opinion
Dear Rose,
I don't know how often you visit my blog. If you do visit always, you would see my post few days ago on loving you. [Please read here]
I think one of the challenges you have is that you don't even love yourself enough. You tend to have given up on your self which in itself is a bad omen.
Please work on yourself if possible see a counselor. You have so much potentials that you haven't even realized do not let the devil deceive and steal your joy [read here] . Your life is precious and kings shall come to the brightness of your rising [Ish 60:3].
You are made in the image of God therefore, you are good and the best of your kind.
Stop comparing yourself with others. You do not have the same destiny with them. please go back to your first love(Jesus Christ). God is a rewarder of they that diligently seek HIM [Hebrew 11:6].
No genuine servant of God see shame. 

Temptations and tribulations may come but HE assured us that when we pass through the water HE will be with us [Ish 43:2]. Hold onto that and see your life turn around for good. [also read here]
I wish you the best of luck and i hope to read your testimony soon.



  1. Gloria you said it real well...i hope the poster reads and follow advices

  2. I pity the poster..There are times like that in everyone's life that you feel things are just static as if you are the only one going through hard times.

    Just be prayerful cos at times, it might not be ordinary.

  3. Dear Poster, there are so many people going through exactly what you're going through in life, yet they have not given up on themselves. Why would you? Keep believing in yourself because your luck might just come when you least expect.

  4. Keep holding on. Everyone has face such one time or the other. *I am not an excuse *.keep believing, keep doing what you do, kerp praying,someday, one day God will shine his eyes on you
    Not easy tho. but hold on.


  5. Am so impressed with all the advices given by my fellow ministers(Gloria, chincobee, Alabekee and bolatito), I pray for more wisdom upon your lives.

    Dear poster if you take these advice seriously and act on them, Great testimonies awaits you.

    for what you are going through shall turn to you for testimonies. Luke 21:13

    Believe in God and not luck, do not do anything to compromise your faith please.
    Thank you and stay blessed!

  6. God's got you hun... keeep holding on .. pray, give thanks... and my spiritual father says " you don't have a need when you have a seed"


  7. follow gloria's advice,don't compare yourself to others. God can do all things

  8. Speak to your life dear! dont think negativity........ speak the word into your life...

    1. My best comment on here. She has the power in her mouth to call things into being as though they were. I'm glad she says she is a christian. :)

      So sweetie speak the mess out of your life!

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