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Thursday, 3 December 2015

Dear Gloria He Gave Me A Deadline.

He Gave Me A Deadline

Dear Gloria,
My name is Bisi [not real name] and am in my mid thirties.
I am so sorry to disturb you with my issues.
I am currently dating a  40-yr-old man whom i love so much and I believe he loves me too.

The problem now is that, my boyfriend ask me to get pregnant before he marries me.
As if that is not enough he further said that  if by the end of December 2015 i don't get pregnant we should call off the relationship.

I have been trying to get pregnant ever since but it's not happening i don't know what else to do as i don't want to lose this relationship.
Please let your readers advice.
God bless you for the good job you are doing.


PS
Dear Bisi, thanks for sending in your mail. Though you specifically ask my readers to advice lolz, however, let me quickly drop a few lines.
Firstly, are you a true child of God? If yes, then, why are you defiling the bed? (Hebrew13:4). Because it takes sleeping with a man to get pregnant and that is what you have been trying to do with a man that hasn't even made up his mind to marry you.
Secondly, a man that can give you an ultimatum does not love you hellooooo...
Please work on your self esteem and your walk with God.
Shalom..

19 comments:

  1. No man uou not married to is worth your body...stop giving in to his sexual needs and be closer to God

    Glowyshoe blog

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    1. i fly with glowy shoe.You defiled the bed and he also give you deadline to get pregnant. hmmm, just stop it and be closer to God.
      Topmost Tree

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    2. Hmmmmmmmm I wonder how people find it easy to move out of a relationship and they even expect others to do the same.

      There are so many salient issues to address here before you she can agree to move on according to your advise.

      She is in her mid thirty and has a matter of fact we all know what that means for a single lady. You want her to move on...to where? I know you will say to God! Because you have no idea of a man who is seriously searching and won't mind to marry someone at thirty plus without second thought.

      My advise pls! I know why you are not pregnant...it is because God don't want you to have baby outside wedlock.
      So try to convince your man, let him see your parents, pay the bride price.

      Thereafter if you do it once, na twins be that. Trust God.


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  2. Gloria dear, am in love with you for the wonderful advice you have given to this lady!
    Thank you my Assistant pastor, I pray for more Wisdom to counsel women into their Divine Inheritance!
    *am proud of you Gloria* more Grace!


    I now call on BMF, Chincobee, Miriam Ezeka my fellow minister to please counsel this wonderful woman because it is God that direct her to his blog to open her eyes of understanding....

    over to you now, BMF, Chicobee and Miriam(Mimi love i believe this is definitely part of your theme).
    Thank you......

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    1. *it is God that direct her to this Blog*



      www.wlcmwisdom.blogspot.com

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    2. Gloria dear, I Love this new look o......Merry Xmas in Advance!
      *smiles

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    3. Awwwwh thanks ma.. Love you too. #webothsmellchristmasnow lolz.

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  3. No need for sentimental shit here, don't and never think of doing it.

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  4. LIKE THE LADIES ABOVE MEE HV ALL SAID........... AN ULTIMATUM FOR MARRIAGE OR ANYTHING IN RELATIONSHIP IS SCAM.... QUIT NOW N LET GOD GUIDE AND LEAD YOU TO YOUR MAN...

    www.lexhansplace.com

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  5. let God take control.. stop d fornication....
    na God dae give pikin


    www.adenegift.com

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  6. TLB don wear new wrapper ooo, this is beautiful.
    Back to the matter on ground, dear Poster, I want you to know that many ladies who have done what the man is asking you to do have lived to regret their actions. Why would you chose to walk in that direction just to please a man? Please be wise and let God have His way in your life.
    www.alabekee.com

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  7. Fleee, my sister. A man who truly loves you will never ever give you Ultimatum. Please just leave the relationship.
    You are trying to get pregnant, are you God? Abeg !

    Bolateethole.blogspot.com

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    1. Lemme just perch with you. You're desperate but what if you get pregnant and he rejects you?? In this age?? Don't be gullible

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  8. This issue of men asking women to get pregnant is becoming g something else. At this level of development and enlightenment from education, why would a man want that? Sometimes I look at women and I can't help than think that the African women are still somewhat under bandage in the hands of men..

    WWW.senenablog.com

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  9. Inukwa get pregnant? Nne, just don't heed to it. How dare he give u a condition for marriage. To me, he's not worth it. God will give u ur own man.
    I wonder y some men even in marriages pressurize their wives into gettin pregnant. When did d women become God dat gives children? Nawa.

    pamscrib.blogspot.com

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  10. It's such a pity that your socalled bf is selfish. If he can't marry you the way you are, he should shift. Now that's how some women become baby mamas without marriage

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    1. Madam...take in for the selfish bf at your own detriment.
      Nma's Blog 

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