Yayyyy or Nayyyy...

Hey lovelies,
How are you all doing? I have been on and off recently i know and i also know that you understand that life is sometimes like that.
Lovelies am going through stuffs and i am so convinced that am gonna share my testimony here too. So if you have the time just say a prayer or more for me.. Now read what i have here:

There are so many misconceptions that are rooted from our society concerning how and what should make relationships work trust humans we have the tendency to make things complicated than they already are lol..

You most have heard the saying: "Men use love to get sex and women use sex to get love". Personally i believe that it doesn't have to be the way it is. Well, there might be some truth to that o but i think relationships should be seen beyond sex..  that men want and need sex more than women and that sex is all men need to be happy that's simply not true.

Men and women have similar sex drives but our society, and throughout history, men have been encouraged to 'sow their wild oats' and women have been told they have to be 'good girls'. So men are used to giving in to their desires and women are used to putting their desires on hold... Lol no many believe it's a man's world..

No wonder relationships seem like such a challenge! Half the population doesn't feel like they have any control over their urges and the other half feels like their urges are wrong!

For anyone who wants a stable loving relationship you will need to re-think many of the concepts you were brought up to believe. The truth is that anyone, men or women, will leave unfulfilled relationships if he /she is not finding joy in such. 

In order to really have a loving long term relationship you need to have physical, spiritual, and emotional connection with your spouse these are necessary for the success of any long term relationship.
Everyone wants to feel like they are accepted, understood, desired, and loved by their partners. 

Most often relationships starts breaking up when one or more of these needs aren't met. So if you want to know why men leave relationships so you can prevent it from happening to you, it is important to connect with your man physically, spiritually, and emotionally, and both of you will be happy, fulfilled, and committed to the relationship forever.
Sex is not what makes a relationship work. So ladies stop offering your body because you are desperate to get married.. Sex will not make him marry you, being a baby mama is not a guarantee even..

Men love women that are intelligent, Women that can give them complete happiness..

Yayyyy or nayyy....