Wednesday, 14 October 2015

Yayyyy or Nayyyy...

Hey lovelies,
How are you all doing? I have been on and off recently i know and i also know that you understand that life is sometimes like that.
Lovelies am going through stuffs and i am so convinced that am gonna share my testimony here too. So if you have the time just say a prayer or more for me.. Now read what i have here:

There are so many misconceptions that are rooted from our society concerning how and what should make relationships work trust humans we have the tendency to make things complicated than they already are lol..

You most have heard the saying: "Men use love to get sex and women use sex to get love". Personally i believe that it doesn't have to be the way it is. Well, there might be some truth to that o but i think relationships should be seen beyond sex..  that men want and need sex more than women and that sex is all men need to be happy that's simply not true.

Men and women have similar sex drives but our society, and throughout history, men have been encouraged to 'sow their wild oats' and women have been told they have to be 'good girls'. So men are used to giving in to their desires and women are used to putting their desires on hold... Lol no many believe it's a man's world..

No wonder relationships seem like such a challenge! Half the population doesn't feel like they have any control over their urges and the other half feels like their urges are wrong!

For anyone who wants a stable loving relationship you will need to re-think many of the concepts you were brought up to believe. The truth is that anyone, men or women, will leave unfulfilled relationships if he /she is not finding joy in such. 

In order to really have a loving long term relationship you need to have physical, spiritual, and emotional connection with your spouse these are necessary for the success of any long term relationship.
Everyone wants to feel like they are accepted, understood, desired, and loved by their partners. 

Most often relationships starts breaking up when one or more of these needs aren't met. So if you want to know why men leave relationships so you can prevent it from happening to you, it is important to connect with your man physically, spiritually, and emotionally, and both of you will be happy, fulfilled, and committed to the relationship forever.
Sex is not what makes a relationship work. So ladies stop offering your body because you are desperate to get married.. Sex will not make him marry you, being a baby mama is not a guarantee even..

Men love women that are intelligent, Women that can give them complete happiness..

Yayyyy or nayyy....


  1. Yayyyyyyyy for most people

    Nayyy for few cos it works for them

  2. Glo dear, whatever it is that you're going through at the moment, our God will not hesitate to make a way out for you when you least expect. Just believe....and it shall be to you according to your Faith.
    Back to your question, it's a Yayyyyy for me

  3. Yay

  4. Yayyy

    If it did work, it wasnt cos of the sex believe me.

    mami, the Lord is your strength

  5. The Lord is your strength Glo and its Yaaaay all d way

  6. Believe me Gloria what ever you are going through is for a testimony.
    Luke 21:13 And it shall turn to you for a testimony.

    Gloria you are for signs and wonders in Israel from the LORD of hosts, which dwelleth in Mount Zion.Isaiah 8:18

    2 Corinthians 12:9-10
    9 And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness. Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me.

    10 Therefore I take pleasure in infirmities, in reproaches, in necessities, in persecutions, in distresses for Christ's sake: for when I am weak, then am I strong.

    "Trust in the LORD Gloria"

    I love you but Jesus loves you most!!!

  7. Yaay, men love intelligent women. They might pretend but they like it like Kilode was

    1. I was actually sleeping when I typed this comment earlier today.
      Pardon my error

    2. Lolz didn't see any error... Congrats on your CL...

  8. Hmmm....This is really an adult discussion. It was well presented and I read in between the lines.

    " Love is not really about what's in between your two legs, but your upstairs" Gloria.

    My questions is, intenligency, and been intelligent is a gift from above. What should ladies who are not highly blessed with intelligence offer to secure a man?

    Though, under any religion ethics, premarital sex is forbidden, even in traditional religion. It is also against morality. So I discouraged it also. But what can be done if the only serious guy in my life keep demanding?

    Note: You can only be connected either emotionally or physically with that particular person who feels like you do. What if he is showing no interest? What can someone do? Should I just continue to be spiritually connected alone? Hoping one day he is gonna change?

    1. My being intelligent that I mentioned isn't the only good quality that attracts men to women there are so many others. (prov31)
      On your second and third questions.. Like attracts like.

  9. glo glo whatever it is you going through, God is your strength..just have faith in him....
    yaaay all the way baby

    Glowyshoes's blog

  10. Hiya Bubba.. I must say that this is a very insightful post.. and mehn! I love how structured your mind seems.. As you seem very open to opposing ideas.. but i am afraid I must Disagree with you on this line.. the one where you went:

    "Men and women have similar sex drives "

    Thats not True Nne! not True at all.. Women can alleviate their cravings in a flash.. But men! its HARD like that... Mehn Do you know how many Nights I stay awake all through cause I am sex starved.. Trust me.. It is deep like that... #23andCounting

    Sincerely.. Relationships require a lot to work.. **Think about it... but then if you are putting in way ttooo much work to make your relationship work.. then I am afraid that relationship is dead already.. **Please think about this too...

    To this 23 years 11 months and 3 days old young and confused child yeah... Top of the list in any relationship should be Friendship.. As if I not friends to a someboRRy that aYam dating.. like the White man says.. :) Whether she like.. let her cook shark inside pepper soup with green Rice for me oh! Or give me Snake in the monkey shadow style with her legs touching the roof in the bedroom oh! when I cum... I cum.. but that will not make me as happy as is needed in dating.. So Yay or Nay! Naahh.. i will not be the judge of that.. To all man his own.

    This was uber fun to read.. and by far the coolest post I have read all October.. Thanks for sharing Nne.. You go gurlll..


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