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Friday, 4 September 2015

LESSON OF THE WEEK ::Words Of Wisdom

WORDS FROM A MOTHER TO HER DAUGHTER ABOUT
MARRIAGE

1. The wife that wins all arguments with her husband is not wise. The home is not a law court.

2. The wife that uses s ex as a weapon in the home - placing embargo, going to bed in jeans shorts and trousers -lacks
wisdom.

3. The wife that uses the modern trends and laws of "women's rights" to insult or ridicule her husband simply makes a fool of herself.

4. A woman that makes her home devoid of peace through bickering, nagging and quarrels needs help. A man should be eager to run away from office to be at home, for that should be the safest and closest place on earth for him.

5. Modern-day equality in marriage does not mean competition, It simply means partnership. Taking advantage of such equality to turn around and become the defecto head of the home and oppress the man is tantamount to playing with fire. If you destroy your home, soon you will be
the boss of an empty home.

6. A wise wife makes the man feel so good that he assumes that he is the head. Once he gets that feeling, the woman
gently wields her power and the head actually turns to wherever the neck wants without a protest.

7. A wife that does not pull herself away from friends' influence and advice or even from the control of her mother and father will have herself to blame.

8. When a man is looking for a wife, he bypasses women of different shapes and sizes to choose a wife But soon after
childbirth, many women hide under the excuse of childbirth to let go of themselves. Many stop bothering about their looks, shape, dressing, etc within 5 years of marriage, people start wondering if the wife is the man's aunt, even though she is 7 years younger. Her defense is that if he truly loves her, he should love her the way she is but when looking for a wife, he saw people like the present YOU and
ignored them and settled for the former YOU. Today, you go to bed smelling of onions.... You go to bed wearing
grandmothers' clothes. Why are you playing with your marriage? Love is not about looks - we know But looks enhances love and marriage There is a difference between someone disfiguring herself and the person being disfigured by an accident. Please don't be complacent. As hard as it may be, work on looking like you were when he first saw you and began the chase.

9. If every night you are tired, sleepy, sore, down with headache or fever, "not in the mood," you are a joker, a serious comedian!

10. If your children suddenly become more important to you than your husband, you need prayers.

11. If you assume that as the woman, only you need to be pampered and fussed over while the man is a stone that has no emotions, you need to be pitied.

12. A woman that has the mind of a wife does not excite her husband. Wives are usually complacent and presumptuous.
A wife must strive to have the mind of a girlfriend, A girlfriend is always nicer, sweeter, more loving and always thinking of ways to wow her sweetheart; a girlfriend does not try to win all arguments, does not call the man a "useless man", is not careless about her looks or dressing,
always smiles and laughs with the man, sends the man sweet messages and calls, etc.
Are you your husband's girlfriend in word and in deed?

LASTLY, DO NOT INFORM ME OF YOUR QUARRELS, I DIDN’T JOIN YOU TOGETHER, GOD DID, GO AND INFORM
HIM AND HE WILL SORT YOU OUT.

Wow.... a blog visitor sent this in i decided to published it unedited.. Thanks dearie for this piece alot of lessons in it especially for the ladies...


20 comments:

  1. Lol@do not inform me of your querrel

    I think I have read this somewhere too. It's really good to take note of this most importantly it's application. May God help us

    Goodmrning everyone!!!

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  2. You have just deconstructed the matriarchal hegemonic structure (am a feminist)... I g

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    1. Hold on let me go get my dictionary.. Lol.. But the mother haven't trampled on your believe though..

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    2. *adjusts eyeglasses*
      Yomi...biko break it down.

      Wise words btw... Nma's Blog 

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  3. This particular mum is a sanguine. I can feel it. Lol. Nice piece. When mum advises a daughter, it is priceless. 1-12 so filled with wisdom. Thanks for posting this, sweetie!

    Mum Shares Secrets of Her Marriage

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    1. Who is a sanguine again???? #thinking.. Lolz. Thanks love your comments always make me smile..

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  4. Make una no scatter Gloria head this morning oooo. It's already friday!!!!

    @Gloria, noted. Will add up!!!

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  5. hmmm Glo..ria! u know dis reminds me of the virtuous woman

    who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.
    the heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he have no need of spoil.

    she will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.

    she maketh herself coverings of tapestery; her clothing is silk and purple.

    her husband is known at the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land.

    strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoie in time to come.

    she open her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness.

    she looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness.

    her children arise up and call blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her.

    many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all.

    favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised.

    give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates.-----proverbs 31 from verse 10,11,12,22,23,25,26,27,28,29,30 and 31.


    www.wlcmwisdom.blogspot.com

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  6. @Glo, I am my husband's girlfriend in word and in deed. lolz
    www.alabekee.com

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  7. Great musings indeed, thanks for sharing and greetings!

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  8. Words of wisdom for the wise woman......

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  9. Words of wisdom for the wise woman......

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  10. Too true, great points indeed, now waiting for the one that speaks to the men, oya sender mail in part two:-)

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  11. Hahahahahahah, ,lobatan

    Bolateethole.blogspot.com

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