Thursday, 3 September 2015

Dear Gloria What Do I Do?????????

Hi TLB Nation,
How are you all doing?? How is the week and month treating you so far?
It's another "Dear Gloria" thursday and i got this mail from a blog visitor to share..
Read and as our custom please drop a word in the comment section. Trust me people are getting help already and i can't but thank you enough for your comments/views so far..
You can read last week's letter here.

Dear Gloria,

I am a young woman of 25 married and expecting my first child. A friend introduced me to your blog few weeks ago and i must commend you for the good work you are doing.. I will love to see you one day..
Ma, please i have a confession to make. When i was 14, I slept with my elder brother. We did it only once and has since regretted it we promised not to tell anyone but that secret has been eating me up..
I got married 2 years ago and expecting my first child and my brother is studying for his masters abroad. I want to tell somebody but am not close to my mum and my dad stays with his other wife elsewhere..
I am confused and scared that i may not be able to deliver if i don't confess because i know it's an abomination..
Please what do i do??? I need help please..
Let's all head to the comment section to give this woman our suggestions...


  1. There is no way your family will abandon you if you tell them the truth. Since you feel guilty, confess to any family member you're close to. Purification will be made and the incestuous act will be remedied.

  2. Moreover, try and get close to your mother. She's your best friend and confidante. She's in the best position to help you out with pieces of advice. God bless you!

  3. James 4:16 says confess your faults one to another, and pray for one another, that he may be healed. The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much. So she should confess to her husband and plead for forgiveness.
    Besides she did this when she did not even married to the man yet, so the husband should appreciate her wife for revealing such a horrible secret. Not all would love to do that. Romans 9:6 …for they are not all Israel, which are of Israel.
    She should her brother too to confess through phone to her husband. So that she won’t hates her brother forever and her husband too seeing the brother in-law as a demon possess person. James 5:9 Grudge not one against another, brethren, lest he be condemned: behold, the judge standeth before the door.
    As for delivery, Victory is her portion. And Isaac intreated the LORD for his wife,…and the LORD was intreated of him…Genesis 25:21. Her husband should intercede for her wife.
    …For as soon as Zion travailed, she brought forth her children. Shall I bring to the birth and not cause to bring forth? Saith the LORD: shall I cause to bring forth and shut the womb? Saith thy God.
    Confession is the Key! I pray for her to have the courage to confess to her husband now. In Jesus’ Name. Amen.
    Hello Gloria!

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    2. * she should call her brother*
      *the husband should intercede for his wife*

  4. 1. God has forgiven you
    2. forgive yourself to your mom


  5. Ask God for forgiveness, Forgive yourself and speak to a MOG
    Nma's Blog 

  6. Ask God for forgiveness and He will forgive your sins. it's a thing of the past

  7. Confess your sins and pray to God for forgiveness! It is well and God will bless you with the fruit of the womb.

    Rape! Rape! Rape! Every Where In Nigeria, Why?

  8. hnmmmm, there is no sin too big for our God to forgive. All He needs from you is to admit your wrong and confess it to Him. Also, try as much as possible to relate the whole issue with your mum so that she will know how to help you table the matter before you hubby. Once you've gotten the forgiveness you need, you will deliver your baby without any problem at all. All the best

  9. This is a hard one, but just try to tell someone about it just in case

  10. Have you told God, tell him first and he will forgive you. Then you have to let out the secret someday, preferably sit with your brother and both of you should find a way around it.

  11. I think since you have confessed to God and acknowledge that you sinned and ask for forgiveness. That should do

    But if you feel you need to confess to your parents, all the best!!!

  12. Talk to God in prayers. Ask Him for forgiveness.

  13. I tried making comment since morning but bad network deprived me.

    TThe confession you can make is the one you made to your God and repent. That your act was as a result of childhood's place.

    Just week for forgiveness and move on with your life. Don't use your unnecessary confession to disrupt other family members plans.

  14. First of, have you forgiven yourself? That's where the healing starts. If you bury yourself in guilt, it's gonna stick and become part of you that might not leave you for years.

    I might suggest that if you want to Remember to Forget It. You can denial yourself of Pleasures for some period of time and fast and pray to God for forgiveness and healing.
    After that, forgive yourself, discard fear and move on with your life.


  15. Nawa oo. Talk to God about it.

  16. My dear talk to God, forgive yourself and most importantly talk to your mum whom you need to stand by you in the family, good luck


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