Tuesday, 15 September 2015


Good morning lovelies,

Happy Tuesday hope we are all cool?
So yesterday after a stressful morning at work, during my lunch break i got talking with my colleague.
I noticed that he was having some kinda issues but whenever he says anything negative, I point out another reason why that could be positive. After some time he said Gloria i don't get it! You can't be a positive person all of the time. How do you do it? I smiled.. You see this is not the first time someone would tell me that am too positive..
I decided to be so because i realized a long time ago that in life, we are responsible for the way we live our lives, we are responsible for the choices we make. So each day when i wake up i say to myself: 

GLORIA , you have two choices today. You can choose to be in a good mood or you can choose to be in a bad mood.
Ofcourse i choose to always try to be in a good mood.

Each time something bad happens, I can choose to be a victim or I can choose to learn from it. I choose to learn from it.

Every time someone comes to me complaining, I can choose to accept their complaining or I can point out the positive side of life. I choose the positive side of life."

"Yeah, right, it's not that easy," you will say.
Oh yes, it is easy. "Life is all about choices. When you cut away all the junk, every situation is a choice. You choose how you react to situations. You choose how people will affect your mood. You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood. The bottom line: It's your choice how you live life." 

I have come to realize that every day we have the choice to live fully. Attitude, after all, is everything.
So as you go about your daily activities, always choose to the good sides of every situation. Choose to be happy, Choose to make someone smile..

Have a nice day you all..


  1. Have a good day too Gloria!!!

    yes attitude is every thing, that if the choice is positive and not like that of the children of Israel instead of showing God the Gratitude for bringing them out of the Land of Egypt they decided to showcase bad attitude of complaining and murmuring.

    Numbers 14:1-2
    1. And all the congregation lifted up their voice, and cried; and the people wept that night.

    2 And all the children of Israel murmured against Moses and against Aaron: and the whole congregation said unto them, Would God that we had died in the land of Egypt! or would God we had died in this wilderness!

    a lot of people lack the heart of gratitude no matter what. I pray God to give them the Grace to accept change in Jesus' Name. Amen.

  2. Thanks a lot for this...I really needed to read this. These past few days have been overwhelming... Nma's Blog 

  3. Glo Darling you are so right..when most people do things and end up saying that they didnt have a choice,i look at them and say every human has a choice it only depends on the state of your mind at that moment

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  4. You're so right Glo. We choose the way we live our lives, and the choices we make affects our lives either positively or negatively

  5. believe me gloria we don't always choose for our self fate does some time

    been a while missed your blog

  6. Yeah we can always chose how to live our lives. I chose to be happy by creating my own happiness, seeing the good where others see bad. But sometimes when life become so overwhelming, I will seek divine directives on what the Bible said concerning the situation, this also helps me maintain a positive mindset in the midst of storm.

  7. to be positive is a matter of choice and sometimes looking at the circumstances around sef,to be positive will be a big task for you ,but when you look up to the author and the finisher of your faith you will see the positivity in every negativity.

  8. True true true. Love the post and the comments. I'm inspired. Positivity is matter of choice indeed.

  9. attitude, yes.......

  10. Life is what you can make out of it. Always be happy

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