Thursday, 2 July 2015


Hi lovelies, what ah goann with ya all.. Blogmates are are you all doing. It's been raining lion and elephant in Benin so am taking things jejely today. Glowy ejooor forgiveness me for the late post.
So today i gat some yawnings.
It was sent to me by a blog visitor so i am free to call it a guest post..
Read and be blessed lolz

"Who can find a virtuous woman? For her price is far above rubies." Proverbs 31:10

Jonny told her "If your waist is not included in our relationship; then our relationship is a waste. Shuooo
How do I know you love me?
How do I know you are a woman?
How do i know we are sexually compatible? (guys can scope sha)
But in his mind he, said "only if I can have sex with her; i cant marry you. I don't, even love you. Let me just have this sex and run away."
The lady also thought and said in her mind. "I love him. I don't want to lose him. My friends told me sex makes you a
woman. Maybe am a girl; i need to become a woman."

Eventually, she gave in. You can figure out what happen afterwards; from what the guy said in his mind.
From my works with most young ladies, especially teenagers lots still believe it is sex that makes you a woman. I pity such ladies.
Some even go to the extent of going to meet/beg men to have sex with them or to deflower them. After sex, they will say!!
I am now a woman''. Hmm! I cover my face.
Woman, it is not sex that makes you a woman. Any man that says he wants to have sex with you to make you a woman is a liar.
He wants to satisfy his sexual desire on you. Resist him!
Read about the virtuous woman in Proverbs 31:10-31. Her price is far above money or sex. From the characteristics of
a virtuous woman; sex was never mentioned.
No am not  downplaying the importance of sex within a committed married couple. What God is telling us here is that to build a home and keep a man; your character is of paramount.
That is what will attract and sustain a real man. That is what a real man will celebrate and not one thousand and one reasons
why you should have sex with him before marriage.
Things that makes you a real woman are : maturity, decency, intelligence, character, submission, motherhood, being a good wife to your spouse, sexual chastity, trust,
helpful, enterprise, hardworking, homely etc.
What makes you valuable to a man are these virtues. Develop them.
Tying womanhood to sex alone cheapens you and robs you of self esteem and values. The only person that should have
sex with you is your husband and this is allowed after he has proposed marriage to you, sought for your parent consent and paid your bride price in holy marriage.
Woman! You are more than sex; don't let deceitful men take advantage of you.

Somebody shout i hear....


  1. Ehnnn see bribery and corruption..i yaf forgiveness you...
    Girls,ladies,women should learn to say no to these guys...they don't really have much to loose but the shame will definately come back to us...

  2. I think these days,sex is now done mutually except if it's rape,....but it's a good one and a kind of exposure for those that still feel sex will make him love or marry you!!!!!

  3. You are really voicing it out but these days you and I know it's a matter of choice ...

  4. Hmmn.. Gloria thanks, don't base your womanhood and relationship solely on sex.. it may bring some cracks later especially for relationships.

  5. Very well said. Weldone babes

  6. Like you rightly said, it isn't sex that makes a woman. Any woman/lady who thinks towards this direction is only fooling herself. Well said, Glo.

  7. Wow...Glo you are so on point but will 'we' ladies ever learn?
    Nma's Blog 

  8. I wish young girls would adhere to these words. thanks for the post.

  9. Ah, Sweet Glo, You deserve a hug for this beautiful article. Tell hubby to give you for me. ;)

    Good CHARACTER makes a good WOMAN. Every other thing is secondary.

  10. Ohk ma, I yaff hear ooo.

  11. Motigbo o(I haff hear)

  12. Hmmm I like this post and it really go down well with me. thanks. sex does not make you a woman but a sex machine.

    A virtue woman, is that very diplomatic person in nature. Her mind is pure and she in her all capacity is always ready to make sacrifice for the comfort of her family. In nature, she is a multi-tasker, as she can do so many things at once. She is naturally sensitive and emotional that most times she cry out when she can't hold it back. In short she indeed is an asset to her husband, her children and the entire family. unfortunately today, most ladies are opposite.

  13. Sex is physical
    A real woman is deep.Every woman should try to go beyond just the physical,focus on your character because that's what attracts you to a man.


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