Sunday, 12 July 2015

Have You Ever Flirted?

Flirting is behaving as though you are sexually attracted to someone, but playfully rather than with serious intentions. It can be a good way to show you are sexually attracted to some one but researchers says it's not an appropriate way to make friends.

If you are sexually attracted to someone, go ahead, flirt, but be warned overdoing the flirting can become annoying, especially for those who find flirting a little too intrusive or needy.
Don't risk losing the person you're keen on by flirting inappropriately, too much of everything they say it's bad.

Here are few tips on How to flirt without getting your crush angry hehehe..

Choose words that aren't too suggestive or flirtatious. 
Aim to be polite and respectful of the other person, showing that you're keen to get to know him or her better. Here are some ways to create a polite conversation without looking as if you're going too far: - remember though, you are trying to show someone you fancy them, not making casual chit chatc.
You can say "Hey there! How are you doing?" If you think they'll get the reference, say it like Joey from Friends, "How you doin?" This is such a cliche it's a safe joke with anyone who "gets" it but is still a little flirtatious."Today's weather was bad right?, am glad I dressed appropriately.
Or you can go like "I heard about your success at the workshop this week. Congratulations and well done!".

Be less open. 
Don't talk all about yourself. Talk about topics/something you both have an interest in. Discuss things which will encourage your partner to start talking too.
Ask your "flirted" general questions. This means don't ask anything too personal or probing. At the very beginning, it might be somewhat annoying to your to field many questions at a deeply personal level. They might close down the chat or hang up the phone. Take it slowly and easy. No need to rush.If it's hard to find anything to talk about, encourage your partner start talking through subtle questioning.
Examples of suitable things to ask include:"How was your day?, "So, what are your favorite hobbies?".
It's only when you feel that your partner is happy answering your questions, that you can ask more questions.
Hence as your partner provides more information freely, this opens up the opportunity to start getting a little more personal.

Avoid over-complimenting.
Complimenting is an important part of acknowledging the good about another person but it can be overdone.
Over-complimenting might lead your crush to think whether you're lying or simply saying things to make them like you. It can also cause to them to distrust your sincerity, which will dampen any chances they'll fancy you.
Keep the compliments genuine, irregular and don't lie. Just say what good things you think about them without having to make up anything.
Here are some examples of good compliments: "You looked amazing in that outfit yesterday !, 'You don't need to wear makeup, you look naturally beautiful!"(hehehe girls like to hear that a lot).

Avoid flirting by jokes. 
When chatting on internet, or texting via phone, it will be hard for your partner to understand whether you're being serious or not. If you've already let slip a flirty joke, quickly add "Just kidding!
Avoid joking about your partner's family. Some people can take such jokes very seriously and not see anything funny at all in your comments.

Hehehe why are you wearing that face?  It isn't that bad to flirt na. It's bad when you lose control of your purpose.
Now to the divas and dude in the house have you ever flirted, or has somebody flirted with you before?
Guys don't lie o.

Oyah talk your own in the comments section..

Happy Sunday to you all. Monday knocking so hard lolz.


  1. FTC

    Glory go to church

    Will be back

    1. I have flirted before well well sef

      Happy sunday everyone

  2. Hehehehe..flirting? Like criosly who has not done that i guess...buh wat i dnt understand is that must flirting come with a sexual undertone

  3. Lol I'm an incurable flirt - there's this thrill of the 'forbidden'

  4. yes I flirt playfully though to feel good not so much because am into the person

  5. I'm a master flirt, both verbal and non verbal flirting

  6. I be small pikin o, make una wait make i park well and today s sunday sef, lol. But i don . . .
    It is good to observe limits to whatever you do. Don't overdo.
    Have a great week ahead everyone!

  7. So this is what flirting is all about ama go for the main thing...

  8. I hate to admit it but I don't flirt...I guess I am just so rigid *covers face* Infact flirting with me is same as pouring water on a rock... Nma's Blog 

  9. Like you said, it's not bad to flirt, it's only bad when you lose control while flirting.

  10. my network is bad joor since both both my swift and airtel! terrible

  11. It's not really wise to flirt. Why give dem unnecessary high hopes. I'm not say I havnt flirted before, but I really don't find it interesting.

  12. Erm these your flirting tips are ghen ghen like that. Oya lemme go do some flirting tomorrow..hehe


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