Tuesday, 21 July 2015

A Soft Answer.....

Have you ever wondered why people shout in anger, Why do people shout at each other when they are upset?.
Is it because we lose our calm?
But why shout when the other person is just next to you? 
Isn't it possible to speak to him or her with a soft voice?
Why do you shout at a person when you are angry?


When two people are angry at each other, there is a distance in their hearts
To cover the distance, they must shout to be able to hear each other.
The angrier they are,the stronger
they will shout to hear each other through that great distance.

The exact opposite happens when
two people fall in love.
They don't shout at each other but
talk softly. Why?
Because their hearts are psychologically
The distance between them is very close.

When they love each other even more
what happens?
They don't speak, only whisper and they
even get closer to each other in their love. Finally they even do not whisper, they only look at each other and that's all.....
So next time you shout on a loved one, know that you are creating distance between your heart and that person’s
Proverbs 15:1 says a gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.

Heal a hot tempered heart today with your kind words..

Enjoy every moment of the day. Wear a smile, lean on God, life is beautiful, Life is easy.

I love you all..


  1. Yyyyyyyyyaaaayyy.. AyAm first to comment.. Ooooossshheeey Turn uP!

    1. Oh Wow! I love what you said about Anger creating a distance.. It makes perfect sense.. Thinking about it yeah.. Most times when words are said in Anger.. Its like a Freaking Earth Quake... as it creates a distance that is more or less hard to correct..

      This was an Exciting read.. hehehe Truly A calm answer calms things down like the Ghen ghen Book of proverbs says... Baby mi.. Life is truly Short and beauRRiiful.. hence leRRus do away with hate but dance like no one is watching Instead.. Thanks for this Bubba.. Please keep winning and keep smiling Gloria.. And the crowd goes.. Yyyyyyyeeeaaaah mehn!

  2. You are very correct about words said in anger is very dangerous...that's why most times you just pause as a moron for some seconds so you wont derail due to anger

  3. Very wonders ladies will always talk very softly and in an extreme law voice while talking to their loved ones. Gloria, thanks for bringing this.

  4. Chincobee listennnnnn. I can flare up at times!!!


  5. Interesting perspective indeed, and one that is food for thought. Greetings!

  6. reminds me of what Norman Vincent Peale says" you can't get angry while lying down..." in oda words if someone makes u angry, try lying down

    1. Hehehehhehe Favour eh!! Lying down ke?! Me ehnnn... If aYam angry... My temperature used to be hot enough to fry plantain... So if I lie down ehn... My body go burn the matrass... lmao...

    2. Hahaha Duru...!

      Nice writeup Glo...thanks for sharing
      Nma's Blog 

  7. When am angry, I have two unpredictable reaction.
    I can just quietly keep calm and not say anything.
    Or I shout back and cry.
    I hate it when people shout. That's why I try to avoid troubles. But nowadays I think my cup is full. I am giving it back to anyone that shouts back at mumu again

  8. Aww! I love this, really nice and interesting.

  9. its cool to be angry at times

  10. Awww! I'm inspired by this post. Great job you're doing sweetie, well done

  11. Correct write up. Keep it up. i hardly get angry sha

  12. If "A" is angry and shouting - he is creating more distance, but "B" is silent - trying to close up the distance. "A" eventually gets tired, because it takes two to enjoy shouting and he finally gives up...
    I am just trying to make sense out of
    Very interesting.

  13. I love how you write and it is more beautiful because we write alike. I have a question, How then can you describe lovers who shout at each other.

    1. Thanks Uju for visiting TLB. To answer your question, such couple either needs counseling or are not compatible..


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