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Tuesday, 16 June 2015

Have A Relationship With Yourself..

Good morning handsome, cute, beautiful, fabulous, gorgeous, and trendy people. How is the week going already? Take things jejely don't fret but just be focused and you will see lines falling unto you in pleasant places..

So, it's gisting time.

A lady wrote me recently and from her mail, i could tell that she has concluded that something was wrong with her. Especially when she seems to be going from one disastrous relationship to another.
It was hard convincing her that nothing is wrong with her, just that some of us let bad relationships affect our worth.

A lot of people have been in relationships with somebody that made them feel worthless but those standing today are the ones that truly believe that they are worth a lot more than any kill joy attitude from anybody.

For starters, you don't jump into a relationship immediately you are out of one. You give your emotions time to heal. Take some stock and find yourself again before opening your heart up to anybody.
Learn to step back and allow time sort things out for you.

I discovered that running in cycles make people desperate. When everything seems to be going wrong for you is when you should actually give yourself a break . When you are desperate, you begin to deploy manipulation to get what you want...
Please also note that, when healing from a relationship the sensible thing to do is to take some time off men/women. This is not always easy as the natural impulse will be to suck up to someone who can fill the void immediately but you have to get hold of yourself or you risk going on the rebounds and your circle of failed relationships will keep getting wider because such choices are usually not made with the right frame of mind.

During the time off, it is best to focus on self development and the healing of your emotions and before you know it, you won't be too eager to be in anybody's life.
Let's learn to let things take their natural course. Only then you can begin to love and respect yourself like one with him or herself does.

To find yourself, go into yourself, be closer to God through his word, involve in charity works, Learn to take yourself out, eat healthy, do things you love doing, Have fun with friends, read motivational books. Change your look etc.

There's something about the aura that each of us carries, it attracts the exact people that come around you. When you overhaul your mindset and ways, your aura begins to attract people of substance.

For every negative person that comes your way find out what needs to be changed in your life because those that comes into your life should reflect your values to a reasonable extent.

My lovelies thanks for reading and have the most fruitful Tuesday ever.

Cheers...



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11 comments:

  1. You said it all darling...relationship is not something one should jump into easily..take your time

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  2. it is best to focus on self development and the healing of your emotions and before you know it, you won't be too eager to be in anybody's life. I'll go with that!

    Thanks Glo!

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  3. I agree with everything you wrote. We attract people like us
    Pheezycorner.blogspot.com

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  4. You know mami, I usually tell my buddies that until you love yourself, then you can love another....there is so much you can discover bout yourself while you are learning to love yourself. This post is beautifully written mami.

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  5. very well said gloria, thanks for this
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  6. Okay o! Matters of the heart,very touching and educating. Thanks a lot

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  7. Very correct Glo. When you are desperate, you begin to deploy manipulation to get what you want. Well done
    www.alabekee.blogspot.com

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  8. Can't agree less

    Very impactful

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  9. "For starters, you don't jump into a relationship immediately you are out of one. You give your emotions time to heal. Take some stock and find yourself again before opening your heart up to anybody.
    Learn to step back and allow time sort things out for you."
    when you tell them this they think you are beefing them

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  10. Well said! I'm on relationship hiatus

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