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Tuesday, 26 May 2015

QUIT FAKING IT (1).

Good morning lovers, hmmmm a sign of relieve for the craziness these past days... O boyyyyyy it wasn't funny at all oo  shuooo, no light, no fuel, no money. Baaaaad condition but thank God there's light at the end of the tunnel now.. Somebody shout  hallelujahhhhhhhh.

So let's go straight to our gist for today. Hmmmmm who else have noticed that some guys after flirting with several hooooooot girls, when its time for "I  do I do" , they go and marry one primitive gal?
Why do they do that? Ehennnn so that's our gist today. Men in da house please o I just have to do this. *winks *.

He tells you that he admires the way your are keeping it real, especially the way you puff the smokes with him and his friends,  guzzle down everybody's alcohol that is passed round and grace every outing half naked.
All these (plus your know how on bed) are the reasons he is absolutely crazy about your person so he tells you. (watch it o men can say anything when they want to have fun)

Yet when it was time for him to pick a wife.... He went for a lady that doesn't even touch the bottle and can't stand the smoke - let alone touching it. He went for a lady that he's had to quit smoking to even get her attention. A lady who doesn't have to wear 'waywardness' as a badge to net a husband.

Quit sulking o. He never told you that his admiration of your freeness of attitude made him consider you a wife material for one day.  Your ways probably satiate his fantasy (besides he has nothing to lose by tolerating and simply enjoying the pleasure that you throw his way) but when he came back to reality, he made his decision. And since you could so carry yourself as one of the boys, tell me why he should marry his fellow man?.

However, if all your efforts were for him to see that you can make a good 'marital companion ', I suggest you retrace your steps and learn instead those traits that make a lady more respected and I bet you would found someone who would take you home for the very reason that another dumped you.. Chikena.
No responsibl man is willing to take home an irresponsible gal. Even when the man is irresponsible he still looks for a responsible lady to wife. You go out of your way to  smoke, drink and paint the town red with  him will not make him marry you.. Fullllll stop..

Do have a testimony Tuesday. Somebody shouuuuut a louder amennnnnnnn.


26 comments:

  1. Dont mind them guys ...they love been associated with bad girls cos they wont spoil their fun yet they will prefer marrying a down to earth girl who will allow them sleep with their two eyes closed

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    1. Hi trendyliving,ur doing a great job btw GLOWYSHOE.BLOGSPOT.COM loveur blog so much but its diff 2comment due to d prove ur not a robot can u do somefin abt it?

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    2. Thanks @shollymama am so elated to have you here.. Am sure glowy will see and note this observation.

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  3. @Glowy shoe,.. Hehehehe.. Take am easy ooo!!!
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    1. Hehehe @Lucky but it's the truth nah.. Thanks for visiting TLB.

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  4. You're so correct Glo, that's the habit of most guys these days. After spoiling a lady's life, they will leave her when it's time for marriage in search of a virgin. God is watching them.
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  5. @Alabekee, hahahaha, Take am easy dear! Abi a guy don do this to you before? *winks*
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  6. What you said is true. No man will marry an irresponsible girl. Men these days are terrible! Thanks for visiting.
    www.effortlesslady.com

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  7. Its a wake up call for we ladies to live right. We tend to forget the future cos of youthful exuberance
    Don't let no man use us and dump us for someone better off, let's live right biko

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  8. PLS if u could send me ur email there something I want ask or rather I want ur readers to help me decide cus I can't seem to find the ans on my own for the nw,

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    1. Oh @dickson thanks for visiting TLB of course we would be glad to be of help to you. My email is at the bottom of this post.

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  9. I'm learning these things small small. Thanks for sharing, sweet Glo!

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    1. My prof with the best diction ever thanks for always encouraging me.

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  10. Gloria Okaimam You Gat a nice post oo!
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    Buh its true that no man can never marry an irresponsible girl, even though he is the person that made the girl irresponsible, he will use d girl for fun, wen it's time for him to marry, he will go and look for a responsible and untouched Lady!
    *Ladies Take Note*
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    Sha these days, responsible ladies are scarce! While majority of the girls today a very irresponsible!
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  11. @shollymama...i will do something about it..as for you gloria...you not loyal...tot you will side me..

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    1. @glowy my ross model wetin I do na? (in Dumebi's voice)

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    2. Lemme you werw supposed to side and have my back...#angryface...dnt mind me jawe...i use to get lots of spasm comments dat was y i used dat prove you not a robot...twas not funny then oo

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  12. Okay is it weird that everytime I get on this space, I not only learn something new buh I end up grinning...**covers face* that's weird to me.....concerning this post mami....I am not even sure where to begin...buh I can relate to all you have said...Lovely write up mami.

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  13. A word is enough for the wise.SHe who has ear let her ear

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  14. Babes be wise oo, don't be carried away with dem sweet tongue

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  15. Hahaha....this is funny but true. A friend of mine was dating this nigga. Hot girl dating normal boy. They broke up after a while and dude decided to marry a chimp. Not trying to degrade the girl but babe be looking like the clone of Obasanjo.
    The truth is you can never know your spouse's spec until he puts a ring on the finger. My own thought...

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  16. Lol. Dont mind them. They will still leave the girl waka go look elsewhere cos you can't deny who you are and what you prefer.

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  17. The way you describe the lady fear me oo. Drink, smoke goes clubbing each night like her life depended on it.. crazy. Funny enough that same man will hardly marry them. Later you see these girls change their ways because they know that character will take them nowhere but then it may just be too late..

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