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Thursday, 7 May 2015

Is Double Dating Really Worth It?


A friend once said that double dating is not a sin but that when caught in the act is sinful. My people what's the difference?

In my quest to find out why most people double date, I decided to sample the opinions of a cross section of youths and students and the responses I got was quite overwhelming.
The first question posed to a selected number of students was to determine the particular sex that cheats more in a relationship. Out of the twenty young ladies I spoke with 18 of them said that Guys cheat the most while 2 said that women cheat more. I posed the same question to a group of 20 young men and surprisingly 10 said that men cheat more while the other 10 stressed that women cheat more in a relationship.
In a whole 70% of the interviewees agreed to the fact that men cheat more than women in a relationship. 

However, whatever outcome this research may have produced, double dating from my own personal standpoint does not in any way do any good to anyone that indulges in it. Be it the ladies or the guys, double dating saps up emotions, finances and time. I have repeated heard some ladies saying that they go into double dating for security reasons.
They reiterated that most men are not sincere in relationship and hence to mitigate the dreaded heartbreak wahala they had better not put their egg in one basket. 
Finance is another common reason cited by most ladies for venturing into double dating. They argue that to keep up with the current trend in both fashion and otherwise, dating plenty guys is the only way to meet with the huge financial resources involved. “My boyfriend is not working, so he cannot provide all my needs that is why I decided to hook up with a richer man who took care of my upkeeps” a girl once told me.

Always being in the midst of the opposite sex can also trigger the feeling for wanting an additional attention. This often may lead one party to looking outside for satisfaction.
Whatever, the reason maybe….do you think double dating really worth it?

Share your views in the comments section..


20 comments:

  1. As a person, I so much hate double dating because it makes you unfaithful to your partner once you get involved in it. No matter the reason, double dating is not worth it. SHIKENA
    www.alabekee.blogspot.com

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  2. I CANNNOT......i cannot double date. Asides my spirituality, I don't know how to lie and to get away with double dating you have to be a lying pro so i don't. #drops mic

    www.mylifeasmoby.com

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    2. Yeah alabekee and Bola double dating it's not worth it at all. Aside your morals you have to lie and continue lying to keep covering up. Thanks for your contributions.

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  3. When I was younger, I used to double date just for the fun of it and I never got caught. But it's so not cool. I'm wiser now

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    1. Am glad you know better now. Thanks for stopping by.

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  4. Double dating is not worth the stress and the emotional straining that comes with it, since I have someone dats everything why should I doubledate?even if he does not catch me there is wat is called nemesis, I can't double date biko
    Jibbyks.blogspot.com

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  5. My dear, it's not worth it at all. Y cheat on your partner who u claim to love? It's a NO-NO.

    Pamscrib.blogspot.com

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  6. Hmm..it's only an olosho that double dates to double gain

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  7. Thanks to you all for your contributions.

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  8. Personally I never thought of it nor did it and will not advice anyone to double date. It's totally wrong

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  9. double dating for some guys is the sure way to enjoy every lady, because most at time ladies are the cause most men go for double dating, you will see a lady going out with almost a million men. double dating to me is a catastrophic, barbaric silky slaky in nature, am not in support of double dating in any sha

    www.braveheartnaija.blogspot.com

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  10. I see no reason why any sane human should do that.. it shows greed and a big liar of the man doing it.

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  11. Double date? I don't even know how to do it. And the end one will be the loser. I wanted to try when I was single but, trust me I don't know how to pretend, I discarded the unserios one sharperly

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  12. In the end would it be worthwhile...I doubt it.

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  13. Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm What can I sat ? Since Everybody is now a saint....

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    1. Immanuel lolz you talk your own. Bale of which Kingdom?

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    2. haha haha haha haha... Bmf Kingdom...

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  14. Anyone who double date derseve to be lonely for his or her rest of her life. They deserve no true companion.

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    1. hmmmmm for your mind abi... Oga I beg park well joor


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