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Thursday, 28 May 2015

From A TLB Blog Fam.- : Need To Define What It Is.

Hello lovers (yes lovers) it's been a huge blessings having you as a family all I can say is that God's light continue to shine upon your every path... A blog family sent the mail below to me and he is seeking for our opinions. Please let's do what we know how to do best *winks..
Read the mail below

Hi 
Am actually new to ur blogg, though I find it quite interesting as the stuff I get to read there were  just off the hook. One thing though caught my (quit faking it) interest which has got me thinking of a recent argument I had with a I girl I happen to be dating. 
I have known this babe for a very long time, we were not romantically involve or what so ever. In fact back then I knw all the guys she has dated until the moment we all left school for nysc. Fast forward one, we met in rivers state and one thing led to another we slept together and for another year or two we lost communication. Then she called earlier this month, may and said she loved me. That was her exact words and I was shocked. And I asked her if she knew who she is talking to and she said yes and mentioned my name. I couldn't help but laugh all through the conversation cus it sounded way too out place. Cus this is my dude with boobs even though we did it one time. That was that. On the phone just because I didn't want to hurt her feelings I agreed that we should give it a trial and see what happens next. But b4 that I told her that is another babe whom I just met and we were just starting to get to knw our selves b4 the walking in. I made sure that she knew the truth and what she is abot getting her self into. So we had that part settled. 3 weeks later she is asking me to come see her people if am serious abot her ! Just like that. First she started telling me of friends who are either married or abot to, just two days ago we had a problem over that and I told her that I don't think am ready for that commitment yet and that my first priority is to grow a business I just start six months ago and it has not  started making profits and I keep puting more money believing it will get better. While am busy worrying over that she called and said she doesn't think we should be friends again cus that I have known her over ten years and that what do I want to knw again. Nw my question what am I supposed to do here, what do I tell her. Secondly in those ten years we were not involved romantically. She was my dude with boobs. Like bff. Don't want to hurt her feelings which is what am   considering. Pls I need advice on what to do. Or Hw do I play this out. Pls tell ur readers no insults. This is very serious.

(To the sender - :I couldn't published this yesterday because I sent you a mail and was waiting for your reply i had to use my discretion in making you an anonymous. In TLB family,  we don't insult people *thumbs up*) .

what do you guys think?

(Who loves the new look we have???? all thanks to pammie's crib for taking the lead)


9 comments:

  1. I think he should call her,sit her down and duscuss things with her.. When you have a bff relationship with someone and u incidentially bring in sex,trust me everything is ruined..there are relations that are meant forr just friendship whole some for dating and marriage..

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  2. Hmmm.. I dont really know what to say for now,.. I will get back on this post and comment my own side of view later...
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  3. for me, dialogue is the best option, let her know whr u stand on marriage iss, if she can stay fine and if not let her move on
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  4. Some friends are best as being friends. Anything more just wouldn't work. Talk to her. My mum will always say: "Don't marry out of pity."

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  5. The best thing to do is to dialogue with her. Remember, marriage is not breeze in, breeze out. Think before you leap. Besides, I'm loving the new look of your blog Glo. Nice job
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  6. Nice new look Oga go and marry who you can feel comfortable being around with.

    Explain to her

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  7. I am Back,.. Sorry I didn't return back 2comment yesterday cuz i was having a busy schedule, despite d fact i return to this blog to read post...
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    Back 2 the topic:
    - I guess you should just follow your heart!, if you wont marry her, just open-up to her n tell her you can't marry her!
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  8. Biko it's too early for the lady to be asking for marriage. Moreso you should have made it clear to her that you have someone and you ain't expected to date someone out of pity!!!! People should just stop this silly thing

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  9. Girls! Her parents are probably on her neck to get married and you happen to be the victim.. okpe oo

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