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Thursday, 23 April 2015

WHY SHOULD I NOT FLAUNT HIS PICTURE ON SOCIAL MEDIA?

Hello lovelies the weekend is fast approaching again *dancing shoki*. Tomorrow we will have our weeklong review and lesson of the week. If you have any lesson to share pls kindly inbox me so that others can learn from you. So today am discussing a trend that have misled most singles especially the female folks.
Read on.. 

Browsing through Facebook these days and i see the high number of boys and girls that are now using the pictures of their Boyfriend or Girlfriend as their profile picture or cover picture reminds me of those days as a teenager (Which
is not long ago though lol).
Back then you met that girl or the boy and you think you were in love,not realizing you were actually in LUST, then you two took a picture holding hands together and then you put it in your photo album or under your pillow, telling yourself that you are now in love.
Then a couple of months passed and whatever possessed you then has cleared and you both go your separate ways. Some will even use scissors to slice the pictures in frustration. I bet none of you will openly admit doing any of the above lolz

Anyway, to serious issues now:
If you have a boyfriend or girlfriend and he/she used your picture as cover or profile picture, there's nothing absolutely WRONG with that. Infact, you should thank your lucky stars that He/ She loved you so much and was willing to
advertise it so everyone will know that you two are in love.
It is a great idea and a public demonstration of LOVE. It is a strong message to any intruder to back off because you two are made for each
other, it is something to celebrate that your Boyfriend or Girlfriend put up your picture or the one you two snapped holding hands in a park
somewhere as cover picture.
But, there's a PROBLEM especially if you are a woman.

It will be unreasonable of anyone to publicly advertise a relationship that don't actually have a direction, that's where many people especially women fall into this trap of LUST masquerading as LOVE.
The day you started advertising your boyfriend, you practically shut out other guys who might have talked to you, they see you as TAKEN, they
will be looking at other girls.
BUT, The man you advertised hasn't advertised you to his family,
your own family knows nothing about his plans.
All your SHOW of LOVE ends on Facebook and your occasional visits for sex weekends. So what if he walks away like some do? just
because of a mere promise which has no foundation, you shut out others because of a guy who your family doesn't know? That's
foolishness in any other language.
No man has the right to show you off and potentially end your chances of meeting other guys if he is NOT in the process of marrying you.
This is the mistake many girls are making and if the guy walks,their world ends!

Do yourself this favour, Keep your relationship quiet until he moves it to the next level, You will have years and years to USE his picture and he
use your picture but first, Let him show some commitment before he STOPS others coming for you.

Photo credit - Google


39 comments:

  1. You said it all Gloria..there is nothing wrong in it but one shuld thread carefully..in addition,we have vultures around

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  2. Thanks glowy for stopping by. Yes I think wisdom is the watch word.

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    1. Thanks Joan for being a part of this much love.

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  4. Thanks Immanuel for your contribution.

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    1. hmmmmm Gloria aka madam peace. lol I love that.

      Immanuel

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    2. Mavinmis.com I will have your time soon lolz for now am trying to fix my system.
      Anyways thanks for making this fun.

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  5. I believe in keeping my private life private. However, if flaunting a fling makes someone happy then by all means flaunt, but do so knowing that it will end and when it does end , what next.

    Hiya mamacita how's it going?


    Marriedinph.blogspot.com

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    1. Thanks mamacita(fast in copying lolz) I knew of your wonderful blog via everydaytibs and I must say you re doing a wonderful job. Thanks for visiting a newbie like me.

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  6. Lovely post...it mirrored my thought
    Pheezycorner.blogspot.com

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    1. Thanks @ pheezycorner for being a part of this.

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  7. Firstly, lemme scold Immanuel for disturbing everybody today, I think he won a jackpot.
    Ooh, my days,I remember when I was in lust then,I was so quick to show off my guys picture, guess what,the relationship don't last a bit, my friends will complain about me posting pictures, I termed it as jealousy, lolz,what did I know then, the crazy thing is the guy be posting different girls on his Dp, I dare not ask if I do,his response is, they are people like you.imagine!
    Tho there is no hard and fast rules about posting pictures, it's about reading BTW the lines. I have someone who don't post pics of her boyfriend like I do, yet they break her heart. When I met my hubby, I wasn't keen in posting his pictures, cos I have been there and done that, but later I used his pictures cos no how except you are insensitive, you will know if someone is your own people complained, they gossip, I told them,this is my last bustop.
    Chai, I like stories sha
    ohkbye #

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    1. @Bmf your stories makes you who you are and I have always admired you for that. Thanksss a whole lot for stopping by. U have a wonderful blog.

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  8. I personally dont knock all dem 'bae', 'boo' usies on social media. The pros are far less than the cons. Keep it personal, that way nobody knows your in n out. Only when its official you are free to totally flaunt if you please.

    www.mahkaravesnrants.blogspot.com

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    1. Wow we reason alike. Thanks for contributing to this. I know some pers have grabed one or two hints.* Big hug*

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  9. Interesting... but we still gat to show off a bit

    234 Jam Blog

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    1. If we must then, caution must be the watchword I have seen so many that at the end it was a disaster. Thanksssssss for being on Trendy Living Blog.

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  10. Hiya mami...I think this is my first time here....Well, unto the post, I think you are right to some extent, do not advertize your relation if it has no direction...buh there is a slight technicality to that....you can also choose to live for the moment. I mean, you can decide to program your mind like this, 'If it works out, it does, if it doesn't, at some point, it was fun!'....like I said, technicality.....

    Warm blog mamacita.

    Tibs Tells Tales

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    1. Look who is on Trendy Living Blog wow.my ros model lolz. Thanks for your contribution and super thanks for stopping by a jjc's blog.

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  11. Thanks to you all my super herioes and senior colleagues for visiting and dropping your comment this means a lot to me. Its so sad I can't post my WEEKLONG REVIEW and LESSON OF THE WEEK *sad* now that I have these celebrities on my blog *sobs* pls keep visiting cos God willing am fixing the problem as soon as possible. Love you all.

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  12. quit palpable Gloria, we as individual have our own privacy,

    Brave Heart Blog

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    1. Thanks @chinoso your comment means a lot to Trendy Living Blog. Will be on your blog soon.

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  13. Hmmm. It all depends on the individual tho. But I agree with you that one should maintain a certain level of privacy.

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    1. Thanks Molola for dropping your comment.

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  14. Gloria you are so on point with this, y advertise what you not sure of publicly, that just goes to show one sided love.
    jibbyks.blogspot.com

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  15. That is one thing I don't do and never allow any guy to do for me either.. not appealing to me.

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  16. **whispering** We want a new post!!!! hehe...How are you mami?

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    1. Here is a big warm hug to you. I can imagine the kind of playful and lovable pers you are. A new post is coming soon. Thanks for stopping by.

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  17. You're so right Gloria, it's not appealing at all. BTW, welcome to the world of blogging and goodluck ahead.
    www.alabekee.blogspot.com

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  18. lool...I wldnt advise against it but hmmmm u knw its not 100% yet, nytin can happen, will u nw start taking dwn pics....
    natural,wanting to go natural or jst wnt to have fun pls visit www.amnaijaandproud.blogspot.com

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  19. You how when you love something, you want to flaunt it to the world. I wouldnt "advertise" my boo for now, not because I am not sure of the direction it is going, but because private thing should remain private.

    Kudos Gloria, you doing a great job

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  20. To you all who have stopped by I say may your heads be anionnted with fresh ideas always.
    A new post is coming soon. Pls do stay tunned. Lolz.

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  21. hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm. we are waiting ooo!!

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  22. Well, i once did that, but i no do again. If he doesnt put a ring on it, no flaunting. Lolz. Nice one dearie.

    pamscrib.blogspot.com

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  23. Flaunt his picture anywhere...enjoy it why it lasts
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  24. Wait till he puts a ring on it before flaunting unless maybe for his birthday
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